Wholeness

Wholeness. What does that mean for you?   I have been thinking about wholeness lately since a client told me that when they are with me they feel whole.   I was flattered, of course. And I do want to help my clients to a feeling of wholeness. But what I really, really want is for them to feel whole all on their own. If I can help them to that point that’s fabulous. But the real wholeness comes from within. So, I thought I would explore what wholeness means for me.   And here are my thoughts   I feel complete within myself I no longer beat myself up about everything I no longer seek validation from all around me I have made friends with the less shiny bits of my personality and know that it’s perfect to be imperfect I now CHOOSE to be with and love my significant relationships rather than NEED them I do what I love and love what I do I no longer try to be something I’m not I know it’s okay that I like staying home and no longer think I ‘should’ join groups I don’t want to. The ‘shoulds’ - yeah they rarely exist any more. I like spending time with me I no longer hide me And I also accept that I feel all and do all these things only most of the time and that even in my wholeness I am imperfect.   So, again, tell me. What does wholeness mean for...