Shifts and Changes: A New Direction

Where have I been? Well, physically moving as most of you know. But it’s been more than that. I withdrew. I stopped doing my Radio Show (that is coming back starting this Wednesday), stopped doing readings (doing a few now) and stopped doing my weekly Cosmic Transitions Report. I needed this time. I needed to find me through this shift. What the heck does that mean you ask! As an evolutionary astrologer I believe that we are constantly finding ourselves. We are here to grow and evolve and to learn our souls evolutionary lessons. We are not ‘set in stone’ at that moment of birth. We learn lessons at different times in our lives and shift and grow. Or resist and stay stuck. But really that’s rare. Most of us evolve but some make more of a conscious effort to do so and evolve to a greater degree. As a Mentor, I’m a catalyst, a magic maker. Everyone needs a wild card to help them to manifest the life they want and to move towards their souls purpose. And I am that person. Through one on one work and teaching I help you to manifest your souls purpose and to change your life in ways that you didn’t even know you wished for at first. But this time, I needed me. And my mentors and friends. I won’t bore you with the detail but I am going through some very major and life changing shifts. So, as I shift then so does my work. There will be no more weekly videos. I know, I know, you all love them....
Healers Boundaries!

Healers Boundaries!

I love to help people. I am one of those people who others always come to for help. People tell me their deepest, darkest thoughts and feelings and I get them. I understand them and know how to listen deeply and to give compassionate mentoring without telling people what to do.   I even have a Psychotherapist friend who comes to me for mentoring, advice and to offload.   The questions of boundaries can get difficult because I work deeply with my clients. When I work with their charts I see into their soul (all completely confidential of course!) and I get to know them intimately. I am, therefore, seen as a close confidante and friend. But this is my business.   My work as an Intuitive Astrological Mentor means that I am increasingly finding that my empathic skills and need to help people lead to boundary crossing and burn out in my business and two very clear instances today prompted me to write this post. One a blog post on burn out by my mentor Leonie Dawson (you can read it here) and a few ‘quick questions’ from people I had worked with in the past.   I’m sure many of you that are in similar professions will relate. And I KNOW that people don’t mean to cross boundaries. The fault is entirely mine. Because I want to help people and I want them to feel better! The fault is mine because my boundaries are not clear and I find it hard to say no. BUT, I get burned out if I don’t have boundaries.   So here...