If It Is To Be, It’s Up To Me!

If It Is To Be, It’s Up To Me!

If It Is To Be, It's Up To Me! No, this doesn't mean doing it all alone <3 My Motto for the year is, If it is to be, it’s up to me! Someone on my Facebook page said it felt heavy, so let me explain what I mean! I don’t mean that you have to do it all alone. I mean that you already have everything you need. There is nothing wrong with you. But you have to tap into your deep inner strengths and resources and OWN it and SHOW UP. Show up in all your magnificence and f*ck what naysayers say. F*ck smallness in the face with a f*cking brick as one of my mentors, Fabeku Fatunmise, says. You are a kick ass Goddess? F*cking own it. You are an awesome insurance agent? Shout it from the roof tops! You are loud? F*CKING AWESOME, be LOUD. Listen to me. There is NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU.    Every single one of you has this deep well of divinity and amazingness within you and you need to show it up and show it. Where do you think you are too much? Go there. Because I can guarantee you actually won’t be too much to those that love you or need you. In fact those that love you most will love it and applaud you owning your brilliance! Watch my video above for the free call I did for my Planetary Magic Cafe group on Facebook (and join us). I don’t usually share these calls outside the group but this message was screaming to be heard. Because you are...
Do You Ever Feel Like  Fraud?

Do You Ever Feel Like Fraud?

Last week I spent three days at the most amazing event I have ever attended. And I was a speaker. The three days were filled with fun, deep bonding, belly dancing, meditations, kick ass coaching and strategies, breakthroughs, drum circles, Access Consciousness tools and so much love. My heart has grown and, even though I am on a high, I miss that space. So why do I feel Like a fraud? Well, I don’t really. Not to you. I feel as if I have been defrauding myself with a big lie that I released at the event. For a long time I was a little mouse. HATED speaking in front of groups. I would get exhausted and a headache after a full day at an event and spending so much time around people. I even got up on the stage on Day 1 and announced that I am shy and an introvert. What a load of bullcrap. I was afraid. Afraid of being visible. Afraid of speaking my truth. Afraid of not being enough. Afraid of Success. Hiding behind my computer where it feels safe to be visible. I know that is counter intuitive for some of you but that’s my truth. But something shifted. It started when I had my Bars run. I felt the shift. But it was the wholeness of this amazing event that contributed. As I had my Bars run, Angella Johnson, was speaking about using the clearing statement to release different things. And I decided to release the story that I am shy and an introvert. I am not suggesting I will never need...